My adoptive mother travels nearly every weekday. Everywhere from Texas to Canada to California, she is gone most of the week. Her son Kevin and I have the most responsibility for taking care of the house while she's gone. We make sure dinner is ready for Karly and Kyle, the younger siblings, and that they do their homework. We also make sure Kyle gets to lacrosse practice and that Karly gets to swimming practice. His grandmother Gaga takes care of the grocery shopping, though she is getting too old to consistently drive and do that, so Kevin and I have begun to take charge of that as well. We also have a dog and three cats, so taking care of pet food and uh, "business". Add a college workload to that and you have a recipe for a full plate of things to do for the week.
This has given me a few things aside from a headache, and I think the biggest thing it has given me is a wider skill set for actual living. Being only 19, it's really nice to be getting a feel of what actual life is like, in the sense of going grocery shopping and doing housework and the like. I have fixed my share of toilets and washed my share of stains this past semester and a half. Being so busy makes it hard to get find time for a job and keeping money is more of a challenge with gas and personal amenities It's hard to find a perfect solution to everything, but working hard and looking out for family has been more important lately.
Nice post! I like where your analysis is going. Keep going in that direction...don't stop now. It sounds like you have a full-time job with family responsibilities plus a full-time school schedule (is it full-time?). Like I asked you in a previous comment, dig into the research on life-responsibilities and college success. How well do those with full-time jobs tend to do in their academic lives? Add a bit of data here to really put this in perspective.
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